It is said that if something is worth doing, then might as well do it yourself. Well, when it comes to popping the question, several ladies of today are already considering this option. It is observed that it is becoming a trend among women of today to get down in front of their boyfriends on their knees. This is because most women are said to be tired of waiting for they men to propose to them and so they are more than willing to take this matter of proposal into their own hands.
If you think that this is one action that you would be happy to do in order to hurry up the wedding bells, then there are some tips that you can follow if you like to go against tradition.
Your first tip is to make sure that your boyfriend is ready for marriage with you. You are not advised though to ask him upfront about marriage since this could ruin your surprise move to propose. Note that there are some signs that you might notice that will signal his readiness to get married. Considered as the biggest signs if your boyfriend is positive about marriage is how he reacts to wedding in general, and if so, then you will have a successful proposal.
Note that in this case you do not need a ring since male engagement rings are not the in thing. Some of the options could be a diamond bracelet for your man, or a less grand like a pair of cufflinks. Although it is better not to worry so much about what item to give since a smile would surely be on his face when you put on this effort.
The location is another consideration that you have to be mindful when you make the proposal. It is better if you determine if the location will bring extra meaning for you both because it is the restaurant for example where you first met and had dinner, or it is the hotel where you stayed on your first anniversary together. Therefore, it means the place will bring a kind of sentiment so that when you get down on one knee, there is more meaning and special feeling that will be added to your proposal.
This act of women proposing to men is not yet common nowadays, and so better be ready with some disagreements from your nearest and dearest friends and families, and they could be telling you to wait for your boyfriend to do the proposal.